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This one rocks!

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A Submissives Journey Valentines Photo Contest - Submit your entry now!

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Safewords and Non-Verbal Cues
Safe words and dropping ribbons are wonderful, but what if your submissive  can’t do that? Are You looking for the non-verbal cues that they are reaching that place where you need to step back?I had a sad conversation with a Dom this morning who did not. His relationship is over because He didnt recognize she had slipped into subbie space and couldn’t use her safe word.A nonverbal cue is a physical reaction one gives in response to a stimuli— whether that be sensory or auditory.So, Master says, “subbie lick My boots faster” And subbie replies with “rolling my eyes.” she is giving a nonverbal cue.  A subbie goes running around the room and a Top ‘arches an eyebrow as I watch’— The top is giving a nonverbal cue.Well these cues can also be read rt or ct in a scene. I know when subservient’s posts get choppy and (sometimes) ‘blonde’ *smiling at him*, she is really in that submissive place and is lost. she needs Me to recognize that without necessarily verbalizing it to Me. So I step back and let her process before moving forward. In rt I have a slave who goes totally silent when she is in that place— if you knew her, silence is not her thing *L* So when she starts fading like thatI know where to go with her and where NOT to go. 

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Safewords and Non-Verbal Cues

Safe words and dropping ribbons are wonderful, but what if your submissive  can’t do that? Are You looking for the non-verbal cues that they are reaching that place where you need to step back?

I had a sad conversation with a Dom this morning who did not. His relationship is over because He didnt recognize she had slipped into subbie space and couldn’t use her safe word.

A nonverbal cue is a physical reaction one gives in response to a stimuli— whether that be sensory or auditory.

So, Master says, “subbie lick My boots faster” And subbie replies with “rolling my eyes.” she is giving a nonverbal cue.  A subbie goes running around the room and a Top ‘arches an eyebrow as I watch’— The top is giving a nonverbal cue.

Well these cues can also be read rt or ct in a scene. I know when subservient’s posts get choppy and (sometimes) ‘blonde’ *smiling at him*, she is really in that submissive place and is lost. she needs Me to recognize that without necessarily verbalizing it to Me. So I step back and let her process before moving forward. In rt I have a slave who goes totally silent when she is in that place— if you knew her, silence is not her thing *L* So when she starts fading like that
I know where to go with her and where NOT to go. 
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how do you kiss your girl?

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how do you kiss your girl?

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I like this girl hanging around.. hanging her head off„ lol

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I like this girl hanging around.. hanging her head off„ lol

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Gorean (Gor) Life

Restrictions on the Use of Slaves by Others 

I was unable to find the quote I originally went in search of, one 
which discusses the reluctance of a man to share his favored slave 
with his guest. While sharing slaves with guests is part of Gorean 
hospitality it is never a 100% thing — some slaves are held private 
by their owners and some owners simply do not share, often owners do 
not share except with a few chosen others — both in the books and in 
reality.
Read on and enjoy… 


Guardsman of Gor:

Please note in the following quote there is mention both of a common practice of intimately sharing slaves however there is also the very telling use of the word “perhaps” showing it is not an absolute in Gorean society:
“His guests, uncontrolled in their desire, driven half mad with passion, will mightily envy him his girl. Perhaps he, in Gorean hospitality, will share her with them, but, in the end, when they have gone, it is at the foot of his own couch that she, licking and kissing, and begging, will be chained.”
Kajira of Gor:

The slave’s owner has all the choices. He can select what he allows and what he doesn’t without any interference by the slave or by other free persons:
She wore not only her collar. She also wore an iron belt. This belt consisted of two major pieces; one was a rounded, fitted, curved barlike waistband, flattened at the ends; one end of this band, that on the right, standing behind the man and looking forward, had a heavy semicircular ring, a staple, welded onto it; the other flattened end of the waistband, looking forward, had a slot in it which fitted 

Gorean (Gor) Life


Restrictions on the Use of Slaves by Others 

I was unable to find the quote I originally went in search of, one 

which discusses the reluctance of a man to share his favored slave 

with his guest. While sharing slaves with guests is part of Gorean 

hospitality it is never a 100% thing — some slaves are held private 

by their owners and some owners simply do not share, often owners do 

not share except with a few chosen others — both in the books and in 

reality.

Read on and enjoy… 

Guardsman of Gor:

Please note in the following quote there is mention both of a common practice of intimately sharing slaves however there is also the very telling use of the word “perhaps” showing it is not an absolute in Gorean society:

“His guests, uncontrolled in their desire, driven half mad with passion, will mightily envy him his girl. Perhaps he, in Gorean hospitality, will share her with them, but, in the end, when they have gone, it is at the foot of his own couch that she, licking and kissing, and begging, will be chained.”

Kajira of Gor:

The slave’s owner has all the choices. He can select what he allows and what he doesn’t without any interference by the slave or by other free persons:

She wore not only her collar. She also wore an iron belt. This belt consisted of two major pieces; one was a rounded, fitted, curved barlike waistband, flattened at the ends; one end of this band, that on the right, standing behind the man and looking forward, had a heavy semicircular ring, a staple, welded onto it; the other flattened end of the waistband, looking forward, had a slot in it which fitted 

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